The day a girl child is born, parents start dreaming(and worrying) of the day she would be getting married. Even if they are not worried, the society forces them to think about it- " You have a daughter! Start saving for her marriage". Do I pity the parents(including mine) ? Yes , I do!
Is there anything wrong with the society or is this the way it is supposed to be? I firmly believe that latter is not the case. People have to learn to mind their own business. People have to learn that instead of forcing parents to dream about their newborn daughters marriage; they should learn to let the parents be parents- creating memories with their daughter and dreaming of her happiness.
Not every woman dreams of getting married and having kids at a very young age. Not every woman thinks that if she crosses 30, she would become too old to have demand in marriage market( apparently this is what some well educated people think).Not every woman wants to compromise on her dreams to fuel the dreams of the society. Not every woman thinks that marriage is the only means to make her parents happy. Not every woman wants her parents to spend their entire hard earned money on her wedding.
The dream of every parents would have been to see their daughter standing on her feet, taking decisions on her own, achieving her dreams and being happy. But, Society your love of interfering in other's business, polluted their lives and her's. So, Society please shut the **** up and get lost! My advice to you: broaden up your narrow mind.
Let every woman chase her dreams and find her happiness. Let her decide what she has to do in life . Live and let live!
PS: "Society" mentioned in the above post stands for everyone other than parents and siblings.
PS: "Society" mentioned in the above post stands for everyone other than parents and siblings.
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